Thank you for sharing this wonderful image of Female power and authority!
In particular, arm strength is such a major symbol of supposed male muscle power, so the way She is twisting his arms as if they were nothing really makes it clear who's muscle have the real strength.
Anyone ever hear just walk into a weight room while the guys are there? I love seeing all those colossal clumsy boys getting ever-so-humiliated just watching me! I think they know they are slower and less dexterous than me when I walk in, but tell themselves they must be stronger and tougher. Oh how wrong they are! When those bulging, over-inflated fools see a 5'3 105 lb girl easily warming up with their maximum lifts they get SOOOO humiliated! They try to walk out, make snide comments, try to look away from me (They can't resist, a girl pumping iron is like a siren's call to them) and generally fall apart. A lot of the time they'll try and up their weight to keep up with me, I can't tell you how many times I've had to pull a weight from a guy trying to bench twice what he actually could to impress me, easily pulling it away and reminding him he's just a boy with huge inefficient male muscles. Anyone else ever do this kind of thing? I have a few more stories I could tell...interested in what all you have to say
It used to be like this with the female athletes us guys trained with. Since then, I've learned just to move out of the way of the girls if they want to use the equipment.
You sound very experienced for someone so young. I mean 1,60m/48Kg is not really the size I expect an adult to be. The average adult woman is about 1,85m/90Kg just so that you know. Let alone that one day you may come face to face with a 2,12m/166Kg woman in optimal physical condition. How many Kg do you reckon such a woman should "bench", by the way? Alexia
What can I say, I'm little? and for such a woman, maybe 400-500? as for twenty-first starter...sometimes we made sure boys couldn't stear clear, they needed to know who was better and, in my opinion, really enjoyed the show!
There was this girl at a gym I used to go to years ago who did exactly that. When I had finished on the smith rack bench press ( i think at the time doing 70kg) She went on it after me and warmed up with my weights as I looked on astonished from another part of the gym. She then added another 10kg plate to each side and did her sets. I was furious and humiliated as I slyly watched her, willing her to fail, hoping she would only do a couple of reps, hoping those reps wouldn't be full extensions. But she didn't fail, she did 4 sets of 8 reps fully. My ego was mortally wounded because I had always believed even fit women didn't have much in the way of upper body strength and that men were all about upper body strength. How wrong I was. I think she was a rower. G-man
Thank you for your answer, anonymous girl. If you were one of those lazy girls who never work out, of course I 'd refer to you as "little". But, for good athletes of your size, I prefer "agile". Every size has its own grace if you know how to use it. Alexia
Could you tell us what is the reaction of the guy when you remind him he is a boy with huge inefficient male muscle. What do they say to you? What do you tell them? None of them got mad at you?
I have better things to do than give men what they want. So perhaps you should ask what we think of women who do sessions. If it is their choice, fine. Though if they 've been tricked into such processes, I advise them to fight the causes. Our rights are not worth abandoning, we must keep them secured. Alexia
That is a great photo. She is completely in control, and you can almost read his mind as he realizes there is nothing he can do against her superior strength and ability. The rise of Girls wrestling boys has been inspiring. Not only does the macho male realize that Females really are the stronger sex, there is always a gym full of people watching the reality unfold, and each one has to deal with it.
this is all too familiar. I gave up wrestling because of the girls. I'm tired of being humiliated and dominated. Don't know why girls make such a big deal when they beat you even when everyone knows they're going to win in the first place. Brandon
Brandon, not "everyone" knows that Girls are going to beat boys in a wrestling match. There are still many biases against Females in sports of all kinds, so Girls are still fighting to be treated as equals. It's still a great victory for a Girl every time She defeats a male opponent.
We males are being educated about the truth of Female superiority with each Female physical victory. Sorry you feel bad about being humiliated by Them, but you can always wrestle other boys if you want less of a challenge.
Pretty much proves whar 21st, zak, brandon, etc have been saying about bully girls, the misanadric caption, a girl beating up and clearly taunting an older mohawked guy he is in obvious pain from the face plant and the way she has his arm twisted, how can you think that is a good think thing girls are being trained to do this to our talented guys? she is blatently bullying him and trash talking, why is she not disqualified and banned from sports?
Very interesting blog,I am a german wrestler in Germany and we have a female Wrestling too. In my weight class 60-74kg we wrestle mixed the girls 15-17 years old and we were senior team 17-22 Age in training! And very often the girls beat us in the sparring fights and i am a ambitios wrestler but some girls has beat me too. This is very often in Germany this situation female wrestler have to train with males because the girls are to few. But males dont like wrestle and train with females. Many female wrestler can compete with man and superior in weight class 55-74kg in Germany and there it is not allowed mixed wrestling official. In my team the female Coach say we have to do something that we do not demoralized the guys but they can learn from the girls than they can go better. This is absolut really that a 16old girl has beat me many times in training fight and i am 21old Senior wrestler!? We have in Germany a very good female wrestler international wrestler and she has beat most of the males from german highest men wrestling league(Bundesliga)in Training. She has beat the male counterpart(68-74kg) from national team always in various pins and he was complete not in her Level. And we have a top german female wrestler Stephanie Groß she has beat male teammates nonstop. And i am a very good and strong wrestler but I am very nervous when i must train a female opponent than i must be better than her. It is very interesting than Girl often really better often stronger in this normal men Sport. Stefan
And girls wonder why male coaches and opponents are chilly and unwelcoming to them! I’ve been involved in wrestling most of my life, from wrestling in high school to now a wrestling coach in high school, and I have always been against co-ed sports in high school. Blog articles like this and the views expressed in the comments just serve to strengthen my opinion for the simple reason it’s not girls wanting equal rights to participate with boys. All I see is reverse sexism hidden behind the veil of female empowerment. Since when did equality (what feminism and title ix claim to be about) and supremacy have the same meaning? It is clear that no feminist actually wants equality in the same way normal girls don’t wrestle. in wrestling you see it all the time, it is not girls wanting to compete on a team with boys, out of an interest in sport or love of wrestling but girls feeling entitled to compete against and beat boys as part of a feminist activism agenda Yes it is true on the mats girl wrestlers appear generally unstoppable, clearly the majority of mixed gender matches are won by girls. There are a few boys who win some matches against girls. But, I have seen only one boy consistently do well against girls and you only have to look at the records to see there are far more girls undefeated against boys than boys against girls, this is hardly fair or equal girls should not be capable of beating a boy, especially if you consider you don’t see boys wanting to be cheerleaders so why should normal girls want to wrestle? After being given the right via title ix to wrestle against boys it’s incredibly disrespectful of the girls to actually win made worse by how they celebrate after they do. Look just because girls consistently beat the boys doesn’t mean girls are better, in fact far from it people especially feminists aren’t seeing the full picture or why. When you go to matches and see daily the boys getting brutalised on the mats, sometimes hurt quite badly, in matches that end up on youtube as evidence of ‘female supremacy’ for all to see you could be forgiven for getting the impression that the girls are simply too good for boys they overpower them in terms of strength skill and ability and that any 9th grade girl can kick the ass of the meanest baddest 12th grade boy. But I’m afraid you are not seeing the full picture. You get a fake idea that girls are excelling in a boy’s world, or rather they are falsely allowed to excel. The reasons for this are obvious when you think about it. First no matter what you girls say, the rules are biased in your favor and don’t give the boy a chance of a fair match from the start and this is due to as Zak pointed out in the other post the hugely discriminatory weigh monitoring system that is outrageously biased in favor of girls meaning they tend to be a lot bigger than the boys in the same weight category and can train without cutting calories enabling better recovery after sessions. It’s not girls performing as a gender that is not just strong, but routinely stronger than men even, but simple physics boys have to punch above their proper weight class in mixed matches. But boy grapplers must contend with a lot more than supposed ‘female muscle’. Boys have a huge psychological disadvantage. He feels awkward and forgets what he has to do and is worried about where he touches. Secondly boys are brought up not to hurt girls, girls are more delicate, so even if he really wants to win he holds back for fear of hurting her even if he doesn’t think he is doing it, boys lose the match because subconsciously they let the girl win because they have been (rightly) conditioned to harm a girl is wrong. This is what I mean by saying it is a fake idea girls are somehow superior. - physical qualities like strength, skill, speed and physical dominance are naturally male characteristics not the gender norm for girls who shouldn’t really be accepted as athletes like men.
Let me help you out dear. You seem to be confusing equality of opportunity with equality of outcome. Once the opportunities and the rights are equal, I'm afraid female supremacy is the inevitable result. I am thrilled to hear you admit that in the space of a few short years of competing directly against boys, the girls have become completely dominant & unstoppable! You see, we refuse to accept your assigned "gender norms" that boys should be wrestlers & girls should be on the sideline as cheerleaders. You claim that girls don't have a genuine love or interest for the sport of wrestling, but then you claim it is disrespectful of us to beat boys? Please explain how letting your opponent win constitutes a love & respect for the sport? So what if we celebrate wildly after beating a boy, or man for that matter? Society is still telling us we are not capable, so we are justified in making as much noise as possible! Sisters should & will always stick together there should be no greater loyalty than to female empowerment.
I think it is excellent that young girls are flocking to join wrestling teams where they can compete against boys in preference to girls. This is to be encouraged , this is real Amazon activism! Let the next generation of "man-killers" go forth.
"Look just because girls consistently beat the boys doesn’t mean girls are better," Ha ha Really? OK ha ha ha!! Tasha
Well coach, I think Tasha’s reply nailed it, an air tight rebuttal! Your silence speaks volumes. As she says “You seem to be confusing equality of opportunity with equality of outcome…we refuse to accept your assigned "gender norms" that boys should be wrestlers & girls should be on the sideline as cheerleaders.” A girl once said she wanted to wrestle and everyone laughed at her but she beat the boys. Then another girl started wrestling and again you laughed but again she won. More and more girls started wrestling and winning and suddenly you stopped laughing so much the girls now were matched against bigger older more experienced boys and men and still girls win ha ha and now you don’t laugh now you make excuses ‘it’s biased in girls favour’ ‘girls are bullies they follow a feminist agenda’ and now we laugh at you pathetic male losers simply because it’s too hard not to! This photo sums up female supremacy extremely well. The young man in the photo is 2 times state champion 11th grade 17 year old Cody Jolly with a big reputation of having a contract killer mentality one of the most feared wrestlers in his category and had only lost 1 match in 3 seasons. Unfortunately for him he is defending his title in the final against the 1 wrestler that had already beaten him, a 9th grade girl 15 year old Rachel Hales the youngest competitor in the states a young girl who has scalped every male wrestler she faced. The first time they met Rachel pinned Cody in less than a minute. In this state final she done a work on him took him to the finish giving him a lingering beat down making a statement of female power that saw a 15 year old girl become the senior state champion. Did she get to defend her title like Cody? no she was put on an all-girl program as part of the national team. Which is good; she got to represent her country at the highest level, but conveniently no longer had the opportunity to represent her gender any more against the top guys. And this is one reason why there hasn’t been more girl state champions, the ones that win are put into female only competitions, granted they still wrestle at the top level but it makes you wonder if there isn’t a lot a male face saving agenda going along too. Here’s an interesting fact about cheerleading courtesy of Lisa Wade, PhD on jezebel.com. You might be surprised to learn that at its inception in the mid-1800s cheerleading was an all-male sport. Characterized by gymnastics, stunts, and crowd leadership, cheerleading was considered equivalent in prestige to the American flagships of masculinity, football and wrestling. “the reputation of having been a valiant “cheer-leader” is one of the most valuable things a boy can take away from college. As a title to promotion in professional or public life, it ranks hardly second to that of having been a quarterback” Women were mostly excluded from cheerleading until the 1930s. An early opportunity to join squads appeared when large numbers of men were deployed to fight World War I When the men returned from war there was an effort to push women back out of cheerleading (some schools even banned female cheerleaders). The battle over whether women should be cheerleaders would go on for several decades. Argued 1 man in 1938: Women cheerleaders frequently became too masculine for their own good… Cheerleading was too masculine for women! Look at it now, now cheerleader girls pride themselves in being both athletic and spirited, a blending of traits that is now not only considered ideal for women, but an activity that makes them stronger than men - cheerleaders are widely known to out lift male footballers and wrestlers in the weights gym, and just as female cheerleaders made change in definitions of femininity and masculinity, wrestling and football, like cheerleading , as they were developed may very well once have been about manhood and everything that is manly for more than a couple centuries now will soon be for no longer, a tough pill for you to swallow coach Girls rule! Ace
The cycle of males claiming superiority only to be soundly overtaken by the stronger sex continues to lead to the ultimate re-defining of strength and intelligence in all areas.
maleness is more and more equated with weakness and inferiority.
I was going to reply many times actually but stopped before posting because rationalising with you lot is like beating your head against a wall “Never play chess with a pigeon. The pigeon just knocks all the pieces over. Then shits all over the board. Then struts around like it won.” And that’s the same as debating with you dozy broads. Not one of my arguments has been properly addressed, but let me go through your silly statements Tasha did you actually read what I said? It’s a fake equality of opportunity which gives the appearance of ‘female supremacy’. I said you appear to be unstoppable because yes clearly girls are winning the majority of mixed gender matches and even though you laughed at ‘just because girls consistently beat the boys doesn’t mean girls are better’ I explained why and its not fem supremacy! ‘You claim it is disrespectful of us to beat boys? Please explain how letting your opponent win constitutes a love & respect for the sport?’ As I said boys only go 50-60% they subconsciously let the girl win. So for girls to take all the credit for their victories is immensely disrespectful ! Plus just remember who your coaches are in the first place, in the main its men who are teaching you but when do you give them recognition. Listen, girls are to wrestling as boys are to pink nail polish. Wrestling is a masculine gendered cultural form for men so girl wrestlers violate moral and social boundaries! And what do you think the boys take from being beaten by a girl wrestler, it makes a lot of them fearful and resentful and it’s the 99% of girls who don’t wrestle who are at risk of physical assault by an annoyed boy. It is something I certainly DO NOT condone, but for sure girl wrestlers who beat and bully boys create SOME boys who take it out on the rest of the female population, and that is only your fault! Secondly your physical body development may very well create an emancipatory empowerment for you but this is at the expense, degradation and emasculation of boys, some of the shoulders on you girls are broader than us guys and what boy is going to want to date a girl like that! Secondly consider the health risks it presents your interior organs and insides such as the ovaries the physicality of sports like wrestling cannot be good for your bodies! Ace so what about Rachel Hale winning the states that’s just one girl at 106 lbs an easier division to win than say 160lbs. To say it’s a matter of convenience for boys that she couldn’t then defend her title is crud. Cody was a rising star of wrestling tipped for the Olympics and highly regarded p4p as one of the best in the country. To be owned so decisively by a spiteful 9 grader girl broke him as a wrestler and fighter and ended his dreams of Olympic glory! Ruined his sporting career while a girl will grow up and eventually stop sports to raise a family. Good going girls, NOT! You can keep your cheerleading, and jezebel that’s another misandry website, did the editor Tracie Morrisey not write an article advocating woman on man violence with quotes such as woman on man violence is totally okay, “and that’s when she socked him. He was uh totally asking for it” “Men let’s just say it’d be wise to never ever fuck with us” Yeah a very credible media outlet, disgraceful almost as highbrow as this blog. Yboy man up and don’t believe the hype! Alexia my definition of losers are girls who have to bully and moan in order to get everyone to play along with their sense of entitlement, hold grudges, think they know it all, criticize and exude anger. The numbers on this blog are just someone’s opinion and don’t bear up to the facts I have presented. A girlie beating a man twice her size is an unreasonable match up to emphasize ’female supremacy’ what is the context? A newbie 95kger could be beaten by any experienced 56 kg. plus he would have held back. 21st with the 2018/19 season fast approaching I wish you well, don’t let the bullies get you down or brow beaten train hard, DON’T hold back on them recover yours and ours dignity and smash these silly girls!!! Coach
"Coach", your definition of losers is of no significance. Also, you have no idea how bullying is if you really think female wrestlers show such behaviour. Reasonless moaning is exactly what YOU are doing, and guess what? We can tell who is trying to get others to play along with their sense of entitlement - YOU. The numbers on this blog are much more reliable than any misogynist's opinion, because they 've come against countermeasures explained in other posts. If you want to avoid criticism, don't speak. Anger is just a result of injustice caused by your aggression and our passive stance towards it. Plus, your assumption about the match I reported is wrong. The guy is FAR from newbie and did NOT hold back. Actually, no man holds back. You 're blatantly lying. Men are raised to never hold back, we are raised to never do sports. Everything is in your favour, still you lose - so I suppose the definition of loser is man. Alexia
This blog is all about the empowerment of women and I think that the entire world will benefit from that. Personally I find this a great blog with very interesting scientific stories and I love reading the opinions and views of empowered women.
What I find amazing is that Xaan not only allows posts that support the empowerment of women but also allows posts on this blog from men such as "coach" who claim the complete opposite. Who totally disagree that women are catching up, or even are surpassing us. It shows that she is not afraid of a different opinion. Thank you Xaan for this great blog.
Silly girls? No youre a dum ass man mr coach, do you not think we’ve heard it all before? I love wrestling and sports a girl can be in love with wrestling and sports and a feminist. Things in this world are messed up because of men and we have every right to be pissed and think we can do a better job. Don't even think about banning co-ed sports in high school just cause of girls wanting to enter against boys It's basically called ' women empowerment ' if you think about it. Us females of this world are not going to take a no for an answer. Not even if our parents tell us not. Girls don't even need to use it on the mat. We can and do use it for self-defence. Girls are actually getting the opportunity to compete against the guys and to experience what female victory is like. And that’s you males freak out, not that we wrestle, but that we win! Girls beat boys. I wrestle because I want to plus it’s fun. Also taking away the guys man hood is very funny and quite amazing. And beating males builds such confidence! But when I get into fight (meaning when the other person would start shit with me), I use my wrestling moves on them. Other than that Wrestling is a break free for me. And I hope it is for other girls – cos girls r showing our strength through man beating. I’ve never seen a boy let me or any girl win, before a match it’s threats and ‘promises’ sometimes highly unpleasant swearing to you how they are going to humiliate you, then they let us win? Really? I’ve seen plenty of boys scared though and you really don't know how they are going to react. The fear might catch up to them and they may completely freak out as they attempt to crawl their way to safety. It makes it harder to put them out of their misery. A very frustrating thing when wrestling boys is when they start screaming and crying like a baby especially if the ref then accuses you of making foul moves. The girls spectating love it but on the mat it can be annoying. My tactics for wrestling guys, 1) Beat him hard, no mercy; make him know he’s out of his depth. 2) Pin him quickly if you think he will resist too much. 3)Cross face him if he starts making too much noise- you don’t want to lose by a dq. 4) Stop only when YOU think he has had enough to learn now decisively he lost, you don’t want him to have think it was luck. Rachel wrestles that way, the first time she wrestled Cody she new he were state champ, so didn’t mess and pinned him quick, 2nd time she knew she he was just another male and enjoyed herself, gave him an extended beating This girl can? well actually all girls can!
Because wrestling is such a traditionally male sport, and because title ix pits female wrestlers in direct competition against male wrestlers in a supposed appearance of equal opportunity where they are competing against each other in a sport in which the physical cream rises to the top – a physical test of bodies on a supposedly level playing field where girls come out undisputed victors over boys. it is actually leading to the corresponding belief among girls that inequality is a part of the natural order in favor of female supremacy. This is dangerous because it gives girls false confidence, they are not really stronger than men and in a life or death situation the man won’t let the woman win! But as I said feminists and girls are letting it all go to their head. The accusations and growing reputation of girls being bullies has plenty of merit, they have this enormous attitude of entitlement and arrogance on the mat that beggars belief. You can see it in the comments of the girl wrestlers on the other post, what with Jena’s ‘I’m a victim so I can bully boys and act as much a diva as I like’ and Selena’s arrogance and snobbery to the boy wrestlers justified complaints she never did answer Zaks question about ‘accidently’ injuring boys and as far as your wish for segregated female only tournaments go, in my state girls can compete against boys in district tournaments and they can compete against other girls in separate state tournaments, that’s not equal opportunity boys can’t enter the girls tournaments (not that they would want to) of a girl fancies a bit of boy bashing she is free to enter and unfairly take the podium spots in everything bar the boys state championships. If the majority of girls who wrestle do it out of genuine interest in the sport why is it that in states where the genders are segregated girls participation is plateauing but in states where girls can still compete against boys their numbers are still increasing? The answer must have some influence from feminists and blogs like this motivating girls to wrestle by telling them ‘kicking a boy's butt ...is awesome’ Girl wrestlers deride boys, men also, all the time. T shirts I have seen girl wrestlers wearing at tournaments read "Girls Rule. Boys Drool" "Boys are smelly. Half Nelson them." And “I Make the Boys Cry.” - an advocacy of violence which would be unconscionable were the sexes reversed. The consequences of such male-negativity and disrespect girls have are clear - it will generate a misogyny among boys and men, and contempt for women among men. This new sexism, reverse sexism, is widespread in girls wrestling but largely ignored. One does not criticize girls rights! Yet the reality of “I Make the Boys Cry.” is born out again and again over the seasons as we witness girl wrestlers defeating their male opponents, with many of the boys leaving the mat in tears. Meanwhile the girls female teammates will surround and suffocate her with hugs in scenes of hysteria inappropriate for a wrestling match. While any loss in wrestling is especially personal, and boys certainly cry after losing to other boys, it is heart breaking to see the emotional pain these boys experience upon losing to a girl and the sickening way they rejoice after (all the more poignant when the boy is 11 or 12th grade and the girl is just some 8th grader or grade freshman). It shocks me how heartless these girls are - you can tell they enjoy the pain they inflict. You can see they actually love humiliating their male opponents. And its not about teams either. Boys will cheer for a girl on their team if she is against a boy from another team, yet girls will always route for another girl even against a boy on their team, even if it means the team will lose points even if that boy is their boyfriend! ? Leave it to the boys!
Wrestling is the first-ever sport to see losers try to hand out orders to the winners. Elsewhere on this blog, actual numbers have been provided to prove that the playfield is in the boys' favour so any girl's possible behaviour on the mat is by definition justified. You do have a point in the part about motive, but who is to blame for women being basically absent from sport till the 20th century? Give us a break...
I think this is the right place to report something that happened a few days ago. A 1,60m/56Kg girlie wrestled a 1,96m/92Kg man. Result? The girlie won 13-0 on points. A normal result that somehow still needs emphasis. Alexia
Did you watch the match yourself Alexia, or how else do you know about it?
Also, I think that result furthers his point. It’s too difficult to balance a system between girls and boys. Boys wrestle other boys in the same weight class to keep the matches fair, and that would work fine if it was only one gender competing, but girls wrestling against the boys throws the system off. Like you said, girls are constantly dominating boys who are taller, heavier, and older than them. But in most cases, guys don’t even get these advantages. We have to wrestle against girls in our own weight class first, meaning we won’t have extra weight or size. The matches are even more one sided, and there’s no way we can stand a chance against girls closer to our size. It would be a lot simpler if we only had to wrestle other boys.
I agree with gnome ... more males are not only accepting Female superiority, but celebrating it. The male sex is going through an evolutionary change of consciousness which is being forced on us by the unstoppable advancement of the Female.
As She comes closer and closer to Her potential we find ourselves unable to resist Her power, so we return to our original primal state as Her prey, like the black widow spider, the preying mantis, the angler fish and so many other species, we human males will find that we are at the mercy of superior beings ... and if She decides not to have mercy, so be it.
Rather than resist this change, we will embrace it and cheer Her on even as She defeats other males.
Of course I watched the match myself. But, 21st, you 're missing the point. How it is for boys is of absolutely no significance. The unsigned comment just after the "Leave it to the boys" crybaby defeats his "point" as you dare call it.
Thanks gnome, pass my congrats to that audience. Applause is a good step forward, considering that some other types of life on this planet would boo and riot instead. Alexia
Alexia, I just think that his point of view is valid. The system was initially made for boys to wrestle only other boys, and wrestling girls while we don’t have to compete against them in most sports feels unfair, especially since guys put so much hard work into the sport and a girl who’s doing it for laughs will dominate him easily.
Hi Everyone, I am new here. I actually stumbled upon the sight as I was looking into how common it is for females to defeat males in combat sports. The reason being is that I recently had an excruciating loss to a woman in a BJJ match. In my gym there are only two woman who participate and they are not that serious. I have a winning record and was matched up against a woman who had beat two of my teammates. She submitted me with a rear choke hold. What made it probabley the worst defeat I have ever had was that while she was leveraging the hold she was crushing my ribs with her guard. Every time I tried to do something about her legs she would sink in her choke even more. Eventually I went into panic mode and tapped. I was curious how common this was, as it was a bit humiliating losing to a female, but now am discovering that it is not at all uncommon. It sort of pisses me off but there is not much I can do about it
No, 21st, his "point" isn't valid. It even cancels itself. Do you seriously agree with a loser who tries to hand out orders to winners, or are you just trolling us?
To newcomer: Under fair terms, the woman is always going to be stronger than the man. What you can do is get over it. You 'll feel a lot better. Alexia
I also understand his frustration, but understanding isn't the only requirement of caring. And you apparently care a lot. What would you do if you were face-to-face with him? Console him maybe? Whereas I 'd just turn him a slap and send him off. Losers trying to command the winners is not acceptable, what do you not understand? Alexia
Alexia, I think that is false. No outcome is determined just because of the group that the competitors are apart of. Hell, I found that out the hard way.
While I did see the woman who beat me defeat two of my training partners (and these guys were no slouches) I did have a bit of a sense that, being male I had an advantage.
What ever advantages I had were quickly negated by her speed, technique and strength. What I have found in my several year of doing BJJ is that some people just seem to have a innate warrior spirit ( I know that sound cheesy) that normal people don't quite have. I have seen it in other men, but she had it to a degree I have never experienced.
It's hard to define, but you know it when you are competing against it.
In going through the content on this site, I am amazed at the fact that females are having the success they are having. In a way it shouldn't be a surprise given their ascent in such a short time in all other aspects of life, education, business, leadership etc. but when it comes to combat sports I assumed that men would always have the upper hand.
You’re right Alexia, I’m not trying to question you, we shouldn’t try to command the winners. And I’m not saying you don’t understand it, but without being male and being on the losing side of the battle of the sexes, I’m not sure if you realize how difficult it is for us to lose all control to females. We’re always going to want to keep the control we had, but we’re steadily losing it and are helpless against the growing wave of female power.
My previous post doesn't try to explain what wins and losses depend on. I simply stated that losers can't hand out orders to winners, something that goes without saying when men happen to come out victorious, like in films, or abuse cases. I have to ask you therefore what part of my post you consider false. Alexia
Although it should not have come as a real surprise that a 1.60m girl defeats a 1.92m guy, I'm nonetheless very happy she did. If I had been in the audience, I would have wanted her to win too, I would have cheered for her. Boys don't stand a chance against girls in their own weight class but now apparently, boys don't stand a chance either if they have a huge weight advantage.
21st, don't underestimate our emotion-reading skills. We can know how something is, without suffering it ourselves.
Thank you for your supportive mentality, Tasslehoff. There aren't many girlies that small around here, but they all have the habit of putting men in place just as the taller of us do. Every height has its grace, if you 're able to use it properly. Alexia
Putting a muscular guy twice your wait over your knee and letting him no that your muscles won't give an inch no matter how much he kicks and screams, he's assuming the position and getting the spanking...that's always a wonderful feeling.
With the increasing empowerment of women, I think we'll see a lot of comedy then. :-) A lot of macho, provocative asshole's who get taught a very painful lesson.
LOL Nadia and Alexia ... so true that a big muscle male can be turned into a quivering little boy by an Amazon's muscle power. The results are indeed comical, especially if he starts out as ignorant of Female power. Tasselhoff ... agreed we will see a lot more comedy of this type as Women rise. :)
Nadia Black8 “Putting a muscular guy twice your wait over your knee and letting him no that your muscles won't give an inch no matter how much he kicks and screams, he's assuming the position and getting the spanking...that's always a wonderful feeling” YES I have such giggles doing this lol I humiliated one guy so completely doing this he turned totally submissive sobbing and whimoering that I hee awed like a donkey when I did this to him. Ha a hard man is good to beat ;) Ace
I hope you girls know that not all male coaches are like this dude. There is a saying that boys have nothing to win by wrestling a girl, if he wins most people think he should of anyway, if he loses, then somehow it is shameful. I actually think he has everything to gain by wrestling a girl, because how he (and his coaches) handle themselves after the contest can show the true mark of a man. How much dignity he shows in defeat or humility if he manages to win, will really properly define his (and his coaches) manhood and sportsmanship. Sadly the pseudo men I this world are quite vocal. Myself I can only say well done girls, you are doing fantastic! To be fair, I have witnessed girls who when you first meet them look like butter will never melt turn into, well savages on the mat and they can be loud and vocal, primeval almost, which does cause some consternation, but it’s hard to say it’s not impressive or infringing the rules. These are the results of coed matches in Colorado State from 2013 to 2017, (I don’t know how this will display because it’s from a spreadsheet) Colorado state region 1 yearNo. girlswinsvboys losses matches %winav no matchesav wins 2013 37 123 71 195 63 5.3 3.4 2014 40 134 71 204 65 5.1 3.4 2015 28 77 26 104 75 3.7 2.8 2016 26 74 26 99 74 3.8 2.8 2017 26 69 32 102 68 3.9 2.7
region all yearNo. girls winsvboys losses matches %win av no matches av wins 2013 153 509 211 720 71 4.7 3.3 2014 150 512 212 725 71 4.8 3.4 2015 154 468 215 683 68 4.4 3.0 2016 151 437 211 648 67 4.3 2.9 2017 151 448 216 677 66 4.5 3.0 total matches total wins % 4812 3229 67
Generally they agree with the other stats here, the main reason girls think they are doing better as a whole is because while girls may only lose once or twice against a boy, cumulatively it lowers the win ratio (which is still very impressive!!) The girls in region 3 are very under represented, but all 9 of them in 2013 gave the boys a very hard time indeed! (I suspect these are from families with a strong wrestling pedigree) The girls are represented across all weight divisions up to and including 235lbs with the main being 130lbs. Girls wrestling hasn’t really grown anymore in the last few years but the majority of girls have dropped from sophomores to freshmen, implying more girls are taking up wrestling but a lot of girls are dropping out of wrestling later on in high school. In comparison the main concentration of boys is in grades 11 and 12. The win rate of girls seems to be slowly dropping, but this could be because the age and experience gap between contestants is increasing (really hitting home how remarkable girls are doing) So over all well done girls, you are doing a great job!
That are very interesting statistics. Where did you find these statistics. It's great to see that girls win 67% of their matches against boys. Do you happen to know if the boy and girl in such a mixed wrestling match are in the same age and weight division? Or if a younger girl is facing an older boy because in the latter it's even more amazing that girls win so often.
Sorry the spreadsheet hasn’t displayed that well. It’s results from Colorado state wrestling going back to 2013. In meets a wrestler can give away a lot of weight in order to get a match this can work both ways for a girl, sometimes a lighter boy, but I suppose yes because they tend to smaller on a whole they give away the weight. In tournaments they compete in a set weight category. However as girls seem to drop out of wrestling before completing high school, it means a fair few lower grade girls get varsity spots so you see varsity matches where the girls give away average 2-3 years in 2013 and now 3-4 years, which as I said could be why the win rate has dropped from 71 to 66%. It’s a shame not many girls carry on with wrestling (perhaps not for males) because I think without doubt girls are more naturally gifted and could really lead the way in wrestling
Alexia, I think that is false. No outcome is determined just because of the group that the competitors are apart of. Hell, I found that out the hard way.
While I did see the woman who beat me defeat two of my training partners (and these guys were no slouches) I did have a bit of a sense that, being male I had an advantage.
What ever advantages I had were quickly negated by her speed, technique and strength. What I have found in my several year of doing BJJ is that some people just seem to have a innate warrior spirit ( I know that sound cheesy) that normal people don't quite have. I have seen it in other men, but she had it to a degree I have never experienced.
It's hard to define, but you know it when you are competing against it.
In going through the content on this site, I am amazed at the fact that females are having the success they are having. In a way it shouldn't be a surprise given their ascent in such a short time in all other aspects of life, education, business, leadership etc. but when it comes to combat sports I assumed that men would always have the upper hand.
I was 13-14 years old when I already realized that men don't always have the upper hand when it comes to combat sports. Besides working out quite often, my wife holds a black belt in karate and I know that not many men like to spar with her. A lot of them are afraid of her. So instead of "always have the upper hand", I would like to state that only very skilled, trained men will have a chance against a strong, confident, skilled woman in combat sports.
I posted a bit already on here in other topics and yes I "suffered" a bit from her and her friend but those times were NOT the times that I felt lucky. Those times scared me but there were far more happier moments at which I do find myself very lucky. That an amazonian woman like her wanted to be with a man like me, that is what I found amazing and made me feel very lucky.
If I may ... I'd say you'll find quite a few more "enlightened" Women than males. It would seem to me that a blog like this could be of interest to Amazons to discuss their philosophy and experiences as the superior sex completes the final stages of overthrowing the patriarchy. It is in its last days.
I'm not totally convinced, we are heading toward some kind of Matriarchy but having done more research than I would like, I would have to say it might be headed that way. It is well documented how woman and girls are starting to dominate in almost every field. The area that males seemed to always have the clear advantage was in physical activities most explicitly combat. While they still probably do based on sheer size and muscle mass the gap is rapidly closing. Will females pass males in this realm I'm not sure, based on my recent experiences as well as what I am finding on sites like this, I feel they just might. As I stated in a past post, I don't really like that idea, but maybe I will just have to deal with it.
Gnome ... those are some interesting fights. Since women are getting so good at defeating males ... with equally trained/matched females and males it's inevitable that she will tear him apart. There seem to be doubters in the comments, but I'm thinking that it's becoming more likely that any time you see a male beat a female in one of these videos that it's more likely to be fake than the other way around. :)
Gnome, Oh, i agree. There's no doubt in my mind that these Women are really overpowering the men. Seems It's really difficult for males in general to accept the truth of Female superiority, especially when it comes to physical prowess. It's really the final male bastion but it will collapse just like all the other fragile masculine illusions have gone by the wayside.
Thank you for sharing this wonderful image of Female power and authority!
ReplyDeleteIn particular, arm strength is such a major symbol of supposed male muscle power, so the way She is twisting his arms as if they were nothing really makes it clear who's muscle have the real strength.
Truly inspiring!
Anyone ever hear just walk into a weight room while the guys are there? I love seeing all those colossal clumsy boys getting ever-so-humiliated just watching me! I think they know they are slower and less dexterous than me when I walk in, but tell themselves they must be stronger and tougher.
ReplyDeleteOh how wrong they are! When those bulging, over-inflated fools see a 5'3 105 lb girl easily warming up with their maximum lifts they get SOOOO humiliated! They try to walk out, make snide comments, try to look away from me (They can't resist, a girl pumping iron is like a siren's call to them) and generally fall apart.
A lot of the time they'll try and up their weight to keep up with me, I can't tell you how many times I've had to pull a weight from a guy trying to bench twice what he actually could to impress me, easily pulling it away and reminding him he's just a boy with huge inefficient male muscles.
Anyone else ever do this kind of thing? I have a few more stories I could tell...interested in what all you have to say
It used to be like this with the female athletes us guys trained with. Since then, I've learned just to move out of the way of the girls if they want to use the equipment.
DeleteYou sound very experienced for someone so young. I mean 1,60m/48Kg is not really the size I expect an adult to be. The average adult woman is about 1,85m/90Kg just so that you know. Let alone that one day you may come face to face with a 2,12m/166Kg woman in optimal physical condition. How many Kg do you reckon such a woman should "bench", by the way? Alexia
DeleteWhat can I say, I'm little? and for such a woman, maybe 400-500?
Deleteas for twenty-first starter...sometimes we made sure boys couldn't stear clear, they needed to know who was better and, in my opinion, really enjoyed the show!
The girls here did the same thing, but now they always decide to use any equipment that I'm using, meaning I just have to give it up to her.
DeleteThere was this girl at a gym I used to go to years ago who did exactly that. When I had finished on the smith rack bench press ( i think at the time doing 70kg) She went on it after me and warmed up with my weights as I looked on astonished from another part of the gym. She then added another 10kg plate to each side and did her sets. I was furious and humiliated as I slyly watched her, willing her to fail, hoping she would only do a couple of reps, hoping those reps wouldn't be full extensions. But she didn't fail, she did 4 sets of 8 reps fully. My ego was mortally wounded because I had always believed even fit women didn't have much in the way of upper body strength and that men were all about upper body strength. How wrong I was. I think she was a rower. G-man
DeleteThank you for your answer, anonymous girl. If you were one of those lazy girls who never work out, of course I 'd refer to you as "little". But, for good athletes of your size, I prefer "agile". Every size has its own grace if you know how to use it. Alexia
DeleteCould you tell us what is the reaction of the guy when you remind him he is a boy with huge inefficient male muscle. What do they say to you? What do you tell them? None of them got mad at you?
DeleteOh, they often get mad, even try to start fights just because I tell them uncomfortable truths.
Deletei have a question for the women. what do u think of the men who do sessions with muscular women..such as wrestling and muscle worship?
ReplyDeleteI have better things to do than give men what they want. So perhaps you should ask what we think of women who do sessions. If it is their choice, fine. Though if they 've been tricked into such processes, I advise them to fight the causes. Our rights are not worth abandoning, we must keep them secured. Alexia
Deletebut from what i know some enjoy squeezing the shit out of men, and they get paid for it..so i guess it is a double benefit?
DeleteFor the interested ones yes, it is. Alexia
DeleteMan-beaters. That title is interchangeable with female wrestler. It's been getting rougher every year as a male wrestler.
ReplyDeleteThat is a great photo. She is completely in control, and you can almost read his mind as he realizes there is nothing he can do against her superior strength and ability. The rise of Girls wrestling boys has been inspiring. Not only does the macho male realize that Females really are the stronger sex, there is always a gym full of people watching the reality unfold, and each one has to deal with it.
ReplyDeletethis is all too familiar. I gave up wrestling because of the girls. I'm tired of being humiliated and dominated. Don't know why girls make such a big deal when they beat you even when everyone knows they're going to win in the first place. Brandon
DeleteBecause the vast majority doesn't know, maybe? Alexia
DeleteBrandon, not "everyone" knows that Girls are going to beat boys in a wrestling match. There are still many biases against Females in sports of all kinds, so Girls are still fighting to be treated as equals. It's still a great victory for a Girl every time She defeats a male opponent.
DeleteWe males are being educated about the truth of Female superiority with each Female physical victory. Sorry you feel bad about being humiliated by Them, but you can always wrestle other boys if you want less of a challenge.
i would love to wrestle a woman who is powerful and muscular..what should i do?
ReplyDeletebe careful what you wish for and hope you have good medical insurance
Deleteok...but what i should do?
ReplyDeleteI can think of so many wonderful possibilities.
ReplyDeletePretty much proves whar 21st, zak, brandon, etc have been saying about bully girls, the misanadric caption, a girl beating up and clearly taunting an older mohawked guy he is in obvious pain from the face plant and the way she has his arm twisted, how can you think that is a good think thing girls are being trained to do this to our talented guys? she is blatently bullying him and trash talking, why is she not disqualified and banned from sports?
ReplyDeleteIn her place I 'd choose "Try harder", if I were to whisper anything... Athena
ReplyDeleteVery interesting blog,I am a german wrestler in Germany and we have a female Wrestling too.
ReplyDeleteIn my weight class 60-74kg we wrestle mixed the girls 15-17 years old and we were senior team 17-22 Age in training!
And very often the girls beat us in the sparring fights and i am a ambitios wrestler but some girls has beat me too.
This is very often in Germany this situation female wrestler have to train with males because the girls are to few.
But males dont like wrestle and train with females.
Many female wrestler can compete with man and superior in weight class 55-74kg in Germany and there it is not allowed mixed wrestling official.
In my team the female Coach say we have to do something that we do not demoralized the guys but they can learn from the girls than they can go better.
This is absolut really that a 16old girl has beat me many times in training fight and i am 21old Senior wrestler!?
We have in Germany a very good female wrestler international wrestler and she has beat most of the males from german highest men wrestling league(Bundesliga)in Training.
She has beat the male counterpart(68-74kg) from national team always in various pins and he was complete not in her Level.
And we have a top german female wrestler Stephanie Groß she has beat male teammates nonstop.
And i am a very good and strong wrestler but I am very nervous when i must train a female opponent than i must be better than her.
It is very interesting than Girl often really better often stronger in this normal men Sport.
Stefan
And girls wonder why male coaches and opponents are chilly and unwelcoming to them! I’ve been involved in wrestling most of my life, from wrestling in high school to now a wrestling coach in high school, and I have always been against co-ed sports in high school. Blog articles like this and the views expressed in the comments just serve to strengthen my opinion for the simple reason it’s not girls wanting equal rights to participate with boys. All I see is reverse sexism hidden behind the veil of female empowerment. Since when did equality (what feminism and title ix claim to be about) and supremacy have the same meaning? It is clear that no feminist actually wants equality in the same way normal girls don’t wrestle. in wrestling you see it all the time, it is not girls wanting to compete on a team with boys, out of an interest in sport or love of wrestling but girls feeling entitled to compete against and beat boys as part of a feminist activism agenda
ReplyDeleteYes it is true on the mats girl wrestlers appear generally unstoppable, clearly the majority of mixed gender matches are won by girls. There are a few boys who win some matches against girls. But, I have seen only one boy consistently do well against girls and you only have to look at the records to see there are far more girls undefeated against boys than boys against girls, this is hardly fair or equal girls should not be capable of beating a boy, especially if you consider you don’t see boys wanting to be cheerleaders so why should normal girls want to wrestle? After being given the right via title ix to wrestle against boys it’s incredibly disrespectful of the girls to actually win made worse by how they celebrate after they do. Look just because girls consistently beat the boys doesn’t mean girls are better, in fact far from it people especially feminists aren’t seeing the full picture or why. When you go to matches and see daily the boys getting brutalised on the mats, sometimes hurt quite badly, in matches that end up on youtube as evidence of ‘female supremacy’ for all to see you could be forgiven for getting the impression that the girls are simply too good for boys they overpower them in terms of strength skill and ability and that any 9th grade girl can kick the ass of the meanest baddest 12th grade boy. But I’m afraid you are not seeing the full picture. You get a fake idea that girls are excelling in a boy’s world, or rather they are falsely allowed to excel.
The reasons for this are obvious when you think about it. First no matter what you girls say, the rules are biased in your favor and don’t give the boy a chance of a fair match from the start and this is due to as Zak pointed out in the other post the hugely discriminatory weigh monitoring system that is outrageously biased in favor of girls meaning they tend to be a lot bigger than the boys in the same weight category and can train without cutting calories enabling better recovery after sessions. It’s not girls performing as a gender that is not just strong, but routinely stronger than men even, but simple physics boys have to punch above their proper weight class in mixed matches. But boy grapplers must contend with a lot more than supposed ‘female muscle’. Boys have a huge psychological disadvantage. He feels awkward and forgets what he has to do and is worried about where he touches. Secondly boys are brought up not to hurt girls, girls are more delicate, so even if he really wants to win he holds back for fear of hurting her even if he doesn’t think he is doing it, boys lose the match because subconsciously they let the girl win because they have been (rightly) conditioned to harm a girl is wrong.
This is what I mean by saying it is a fake idea girls are somehow superior. - physical qualities like strength, skill, speed and physical dominance are naturally male characteristics not the gender norm for girls who shouldn’t really be accepted as athletes like men.
Let me help you out dear. You seem to be confusing equality of opportunity with equality of outcome. Once the opportunities and the rights are equal, I'm afraid female supremacy is the inevitable result. I am thrilled to hear you admit that in the space of a few short years of competing directly against boys, the girls have become completely dominant & unstoppable! You see, we refuse to accept your assigned "gender norms" that boys should be wrestlers & girls should be on the sideline as cheerleaders. You claim that girls don't have a genuine love or interest for the sport of wrestling, but then you claim it is disrespectful of us to beat boys? Please explain how letting your opponent win constitutes a love & respect for the sport? So what if we celebrate wildly after beating a boy, or man for that matter? Society is still telling us we are not capable, so we are justified in making as much noise as possible! Sisters should & will always stick together there should be no greater loyalty than to female empowerment.
DeleteI think it is excellent that young girls are flocking to join wrestling teams where they can compete against boys in preference to girls. This is to be encouraged , this is real Amazon activism! Let the next generation of "man-killers" go forth.
"Look just because girls consistently beat the boys doesn’t mean girls are better," Ha ha Really? OK ha ha ha!! Tasha
Well coach, I think Tasha’s reply nailed it, an air tight rebuttal! Your silence speaks volumes.
DeleteAs she says “You seem to be confusing equality of opportunity with equality of outcome…we refuse to accept your assigned "gender norms" that boys should be wrestlers & girls should be on the sideline as cheerleaders.” A girl once said she wanted to wrestle and everyone laughed at her but she beat the boys. Then another girl started wrestling and again you laughed but again she won. More and more girls started wrestling and winning and suddenly you stopped laughing so much the girls now were matched against bigger older more experienced boys and men and still girls win ha ha and now you don’t laugh now you make excuses ‘it’s biased in girls favour’ ‘girls are bullies they follow a feminist agenda’ and now we laugh at you pathetic male losers simply because it’s too hard not to! This photo sums up female supremacy extremely well. The young man in the photo is 2 times state champion 11th grade 17 year old Cody Jolly with a big reputation of having a contract killer mentality one of the most feared wrestlers in his category and had only lost 1 match in 3 seasons. Unfortunately for him he is defending his title in the final against the 1 wrestler that had already beaten him, a 9th grade girl 15 year old Rachel Hales the youngest competitor in the states a young girl who has scalped every male wrestler she faced. The first time they met Rachel pinned Cody in less than a minute. In this state final she done a work on him took him to the finish giving him a lingering beat down making a statement of female power that saw a 15 year old girl become the senior state champion. Did she get to defend her title like Cody? no she was put on an all-girl program as part of the national team. Which is good; she got to represent her country at the highest level, but conveniently no longer had the opportunity to represent her gender any more against the top guys. And this is one reason why there hasn’t been more girl state champions, the ones that win are put into female only competitions, granted they still wrestle at the top level but it makes you wonder if there isn’t a lot a male face saving agenda going along too.
Here’s an interesting fact about cheerleading courtesy of Lisa Wade, PhD on jezebel.com. You might be surprised to learn that at its inception in the mid-1800s cheerleading was an all-male sport. Characterized by gymnastics, stunts, and crowd leadership, cheerleading was considered equivalent in prestige to the American flagships of masculinity, football and wrestling. “the reputation of having been a valiant “cheer-leader” is one of the most valuable things a boy can take away from college. As a title to promotion in professional or public life, it ranks hardly second to that of having been a quarterback” Women were mostly excluded from cheerleading until the 1930s. An early opportunity to join squads appeared when large numbers of men were deployed to fight World War I When the men returned from war there was an effort to push women back out of cheerleading (some schools even banned female cheerleaders). The battle over whether women should be cheerleaders would go on for several decades. Argued 1 man in 1938: Women cheerleaders frequently became too masculine for their own good… Cheerleading was too masculine for women! Look at it now, now cheerleader girls pride themselves in being both athletic and spirited, a blending of traits that is now not only considered ideal for women, but an activity that makes them stronger than men - cheerleaders are widely known to out lift male footballers and wrestlers in the weights gym, and just as female cheerleaders made change in definitions of femininity and masculinity, wrestling and football, like cheerleading , as they were developed may very well once have been about manhood and everything that is manly for more than a couple centuries now will soon be for no longer, a tough pill for you to swallow coach Girls rule! Ace
The cycle of males claiming superiority only to be soundly overtaken by the stronger sex continues to lead to the ultimate re-defining of strength and intelligence in all areas.
Deletemaleness is more and more equated with weakness and inferiority.
I was going to reply many times actually but stopped before posting because rationalising with you lot is like beating your head against a wall “Never play chess with a pigeon. The pigeon just knocks all the pieces over. Then shits all over the board. Then struts around like it won.” And that’s the same as debating with you dozy broads. Not one of my arguments has been properly addressed, but let me go through your silly statements
DeleteTasha did you actually read what I said? It’s a fake equality of opportunity which gives the appearance of ‘female supremacy’. I said you appear to be unstoppable because yes clearly girls are winning the majority of mixed gender matches and even though you laughed at ‘just because girls consistently beat the boys doesn’t mean girls are better’ I explained why and its not fem supremacy! ‘You claim it is disrespectful of us to beat boys? Please explain how letting your opponent win constitutes a love & respect for the sport?’ As I said boys only go 50-60% they subconsciously let the girl win. So for girls to take all the credit for their victories is immensely disrespectful ! Plus just remember who your coaches are in the first place, in the main its men who are teaching you but when do you give them recognition.
Listen, girls are to wrestling as boys are to pink nail polish. Wrestling is a masculine gendered cultural form for men so girl wrestlers violate moral and social boundaries! And what do you think the boys take from being beaten by a girl wrestler, it makes a lot of them fearful and resentful and it’s the 99% of girls who don’t wrestle who are at risk of physical assault by an annoyed boy. It is something I certainly DO NOT condone, but for sure girl wrestlers who beat and bully boys create SOME boys who take it out on the rest of the female population, and that is only your fault! Secondly your physical body development may very well create an emancipatory empowerment for you but this is at the expense, degradation and emasculation of boys, some of the shoulders on you girls are broader than us guys and what boy is going to want to date a girl like that! Secondly consider the health risks it presents your interior organs and insides such as the ovaries the physicality of sports like wrestling cannot be good for your bodies!
Ace so what about Rachel Hale winning the states that’s just one girl at 106 lbs an easier division to win than say 160lbs. To say it’s a matter of convenience for boys that she couldn’t then defend her title is crud. Cody was a rising star of wrestling tipped for the Olympics and highly regarded p4p as one of the best in the country. To be owned so decisively by a spiteful 9 grader girl broke him as a wrestler and fighter and ended his dreams of Olympic glory! Ruined his sporting career while a girl will grow up and eventually stop sports to raise a family. Good going girls, NOT!
You can keep your cheerleading, and jezebel that’s another misandry website, did the editor Tracie Morrisey not write an article advocating woman on man violence with quotes such as woman on man violence is totally okay, “and that’s when she socked him. He was uh totally asking for it” “Men let’s just say it’d be wise to never ever fuck with us” Yeah a very credible media outlet, disgraceful almost as highbrow as this blog.
Yboy man up and don’t believe the hype!
Alexia my definition of losers are girls who have to bully and moan in order to get everyone to play along with their sense of entitlement, hold grudges, think they know it all, criticize and exude anger. The numbers on this blog are just someone’s opinion and don’t bear up to the facts I have presented. A girlie beating a man twice her size is an unreasonable match up to emphasize ’female supremacy’ what is the context? A newbie 95kger could be beaten by any experienced 56 kg. plus he would have held back.
21st with the 2018/19 season fast approaching I wish you well, don’t let the bullies get you down or brow beaten train hard, DON’T hold back on them recover yours and ours dignity and smash these silly girls!!! Coach
"Coach", your definition of losers is of no significance. Also, you have no idea how bullying is if you really think female wrestlers show such behaviour. Reasonless moaning is exactly what YOU are doing, and guess what? We can tell who is trying to get others to play along with their sense of entitlement - YOU. The numbers on this blog are much more reliable than any misogynist's opinion, because they 've come against countermeasures explained in other posts. If you want to avoid criticism, don't speak. Anger is just a result of injustice caused by your aggression and our passive stance towards it. Plus, your assumption about the match I reported is wrong. The guy is FAR from newbie and did NOT hold back. Actually, no man holds back. You 're blatantly lying. Men are raised to never hold back, we are raised to never do sports. Everything is in your favour, still you lose - so I suppose the definition of loser is man. Alexia
DeleteThis blog is all about the empowerment of women and I think that the entire world will benefit from that. Personally I find this a great blog with very interesting scientific stories and I love reading the opinions and views of empowered women.
DeleteWhat I find amazing is that Xaan not only allows posts that support the empowerment of women but also allows posts on this blog from men such as "coach" who claim the complete opposite. Who totally disagree that women are catching up, or even are surpassing us. It shows that she is not afraid of a different opinion. Thank you Xaan for this great blog.
Silly girls? No youre a dum ass man mr coach, do you not think we’ve heard it all before? I love wrestling and sports a girl can be in love with wrestling and sports and a feminist. Things in this world are messed up because of men and we have every right to be pissed and think we can do a better job. Don't even think about banning co-ed sports in high school just cause of girls wanting to enter against boys It's basically called ' women empowerment ' if you think about it. Us females of this world are not going to take a no for an answer. Not even if our parents tell us not. Girls don't even need to use it on the mat. We can and do use it for self-defence. Girls are actually getting the opportunity to compete against the guys and to experience what female victory is like. And that’s you males freak out, not that we wrestle, but that we win! Girls beat boys. I wrestle because I want to plus it’s fun. Also taking away the guys man hood is very funny and quite amazing. And beating males builds such confidence! But when I get into fight (meaning when the other person would start shit with me), I use my wrestling moves on them. Other than that Wrestling is a break free for me. And I hope it is for other girls – cos girls r showing our strength through man beating.
DeleteI’ve never seen a boy let me or any girl win, before a match it’s threats and ‘promises’ sometimes highly unpleasant swearing to you how they are going to humiliate you, then they let us win? Really?
I’ve seen plenty of boys scared though and you really don't know how they are going to react. The fear might catch up to them and they may completely freak out as they attempt to crawl their way to safety. It makes it harder to put them out of their misery. A very frustrating thing when wrestling boys is when they start screaming and crying like a baby especially if the ref then accuses you of making foul moves. The girls spectating love it but on the mat it can be annoying. My tactics for wrestling guys, 1) Beat him hard, no mercy; make him know he’s out of his depth. 2) Pin him quickly if you think he will resist too much. 3)Cross face him if he starts making too much noise- you don’t want to lose by a dq. 4) Stop only when YOU think he has had enough to learn now decisively he lost, you don’t want him to have think it was luck.
Rachel wrestles that way, the first time she wrestled Cody she new he were state champ, so didn’t mess and pinned him quick, 2nd time she knew she he was just another male and enjoyed herself, gave him an extended beating This girl can? well actually all girls can!
Wonderful retort! Spoken like a true Amazon!
DeleteBecause wrestling is such a traditionally male sport, and because title ix pits female wrestlers in direct competition against male wrestlers in a supposed appearance of equal opportunity where they are competing against each other in a sport in which the physical cream rises to the top – a physical test of bodies on a supposedly level playing field where girls come out undisputed victors over boys. it is actually leading to the corresponding belief among girls that inequality is a part of the natural order in favor of female supremacy. This is dangerous because it gives girls false confidence, they are not really stronger than men and in a life or death situation the man won’t let the woman win!
ReplyDeleteBut as I said feminists and girls are letting it all go to their head. The accusations and growing reputation of girls being bullies has plenty of merit, they have this enormous attitude of entitlement and arrogance on the mat that beggars belief. You can see it in the comments of the girl wrestlers on the other post, what with Jena’s ‘I’m a victim so I can bully boys and act as much a diva as I like’ and Selena’s arrogance and snobbery to the boy wrestlers justified complaints she never did answer Zaks question about ‘accidently’ injuring boys and as far as your wish for segregated female only tournaments go, in my state girls can compete against boys in district tournaments and they can compete against other girls in separate state tournaments, that’s not equal opportunity boys can’t enter the girls tournaments (not that they would want to) of a girl fancies a bit of boy bashing she is free to enter and unfairly take the podium spots in everything bar the boys state championships. If the majority of girls who wrestle do it out of genuine interest in the sport why is it that in states where the genders are segregated girls participation is plateauing but in states where girls can still compete against boys their numbers are still increasing? The answer must have some influence from feminists and blogs like this motivating girls to wrestle by telling them ‘kicking a boy's butt ...is awesome’ Girl wrestlers deride boys, men also, all the time. T shirts I have seen girl wrestlers wearing at tournaments read "Girls Rule. Boys Drool" "Boys are smelly. Half Nelson them." And “I Make the Boys Cry.” - an advocacy of violence which would be unconscionable were the sexes reversed. The consequences of such male-negativity and disrespect girls have are clear - it will generate a misogyny among boys and men, and contempt for women among men. This new sexism, reverse sexism, is widespread in girls wrestling but largely ignored. One does not criticize girls rights! Yet the reality of “I Make the Boys Cry.” is born out again and again over the seasons as we witness girl wrestlers defeating their male opponents, with many of the boys leaving the mat in tears. Meanwhile the girls female teammates will surround and suffocate her with hugs in scenes of hysteria inappropriate for a wrestling match. While any loss in wrestling is especially personal, and boys certainly cry after losing to other boys, it is heart breaking to see the emotional pain these boys experience upon losing to a girl and the sickening way they rejoice after (all the more poignant when the boy is 11 or 12th grade and the girl is just some 8th grader or grade freshman). It shocks me how heartless these girls are - you can tell they enjoy the pain they inflict. You can see they actually love humiliating their male opponents. And its not about teams either. Boys will cheer for a girl on their team if she is against a boy from another team, yet girls will always route for another girl even against a boy on their team, even if it means the team will lose points even if that boy is their boyfriend! ? Leave it to the boys!
Wrestling is the first-ever sport to see losers try to hand out orders to the winners. Elsewhere on this blog, actual numbers have been provided to prove that the playfield is in the boys' favour so any girl's possible behaviour on the mat is by definition justified. You do have a point in the part about motive, but who is to blame for women being basically absent from sport till the 20th century? Give us a break...
DeleteI think this is the right place to report something that happened a few days ago. A 1,60m/56Kg girlie wrestled a 1,96m/92Kg man. Result? The girlie won 13-0 on points. A normal result that somehow still needs emphasis. Alexia
DeleteDid you watch the match yourself Alexia, or how else do you know about it?
DeleteAlso, I think that result furthers his point. It’s too difficult to balance a system between girls and boys. Boys wrestle other boys in the same weight class to keep the matches fair, and that would work fine if it was only one gender competing, but girls wrestling against the boys throws the system off. Like you said, girls are constantly dominating boys who are taller, heavier, and older than them. But in most cases, guys don’t even get these advantages. We have to wrestle against girls in our own weight class first, meaning we won’t have extra weight or size. The matches are even more one sided, and there’s no way we can stand a chance against girls closer to our size. It would be a lot simpler if we only had to wrestle other boys.
I agree with gnome ... more males are not only accepting Female superiority, but celebrating it. The male sex is going through an evolutionary change of consciousness which is being forced on us by the unstoppable advancement of the Female.
DeleteAs She comes closer and closer to Her potential we find ourselves unable to resist Her power, so we return to our original primal state as Her prey, like the black widow spider, the preying mantis, the angler fish and so many other species, we human males will find that we are at the mercy of superior beings ... and if She decides not to have mercy, so be it.
Rather than resist this change, we will embrace it and cheer Her on even as She defeats other males.
Of course I watched the match myself. But, 21st, you 're missing the point. How it is for boys is of absolutely no significance. The unsigned comment just after the "Leave it to the boys" crybaby defeats his "point" as you dare call it.
DeleteThanks gnome, pass my congrats to that audience. Applause is a good step forward, considering that some other types of life on this planet would boo and riot instead. Alexia
Alexia, I just think that his point of view is valid. The system was initially made for boys to wrestle only other boys, and wrestling girls while we don’t have to compete against them in most sports feels unfair, especially since guys put so much hard work into the sport and a girl who’s doing it for laughs will dominate him easily.
DeleteHi Everyone, I am new here. I actually stumbled upon the sight as I was looking into how common it is for females to defeat males in combat sports.
DeleteThe reason being is that I recently had an excruciating loss to a woman in a BJJ match. In my gym there are only two woman who participate and they are not that serious.
I have a winning record and was matched up against a woman who had beat two of my teammates. She submitted me with a rear choke hold. What made it probabley the worst defeat I have ever had was that while she was leveraging the hold she was crushing my ribs with her guard. Every time I tried to do something about her legs she would sink in her choke even more. Eventually I went into panic mode and tapped.
I was curious how common this was, as it was a bit humiliating losing to a female, but now am discovering that it is not at all uncommon. It sort of pisses me off but there is not much I can do about it
No, 21st, his "point" isn't valid. It even cancels itself. Do you seriously agree with a loser who tries to hand out orders to winners, or are you just trolling us?
DeleteTo newcomer: Under fair terms, the woman is always going to be stronger than the man. What you can do is get over it. You 'll feel a lot better. Alexia
I’m sorry Alexia, I won’t say I agree with him, but I can certainly understand his frustration. The same goes for the newcomer.
DeleteI also understand his frustration, but understanding isn't the only requirement of caring. And you apparently care a lot. What would you do if you were face-to-face with him? Console him maybe? Whereas I 'd just turn him a slap and send him off. Losers trying to command the winners is not acceptable, what do you not understand? Alexia
DeleteAlexia, I think that is false. No outcome is determined just because of the group that the competitors are apart of. Hell, I found that out the hard way.
DeleteWhile I did see the woman who beat me defeat two of my training partners (and these guys were no slouches) I did have a bit of a sense that, being male I had an advantage.
What ever advantages I had were quickly negated by her speed, technique and strength. What I have found in my several year of doing BJJ is that some people just seem to have a innate warrior spirit ( I know that sound cheesy) that normal people don't quite have. I have seen it in other men, but she had it to a degree I have never experienced.
It's hard to define, but you know it when you are competing against it.
In going through the content on this site, I am amazed at the fact that females are having the success they are having. In a way it shouldn't be a surprise given their ascent in such a short time in all other aspects of life, education, business, leadership etc. but when it comes to combat sports I assumed that men would always have the upper hand.
Now I am not as confident.
You’re right Alexia, I’m not trying to question you, we shouldn’t try to command the winners. And I’m not saying you don’t understand it, but without being male and being on the losing side of the battle of the sexes, I’m not sure if you realize how difficult it is for us to lose all control to females. We’re always going to want to keep the control we had, but we’re steadily losing it and are helpless against the growing wave of female power.
DeleteMy previous post doesn't try to explain what wins and losses depend on. I simply stated that losers can't hand out orders to winners, something that goes without saying when men happen to come out victorious, like in films, or abuse cases. I have to ask you therefore what part of my post you consider false. Alexia
DeleteHi Alexia,
DeleteAlthough it should not have come as a real surprise that a 1.60m girl defeats a 1.92m guy, I'm nonetheless very happy she did. If I had been in the audience, I would have wanted her to win too, I would have cheered for her. Boys don't stand a chance against girls in their own weight class but now apparently, boys don't stand a chance either if they have a huge weight advantage.
21st, don't underestimate our emotion-reading skills. We can know how something is, without suffering it ourselves.
DeleteThank you for your supportive mentality, Tasslehoff. There aren't many girlies that small around here, but they all have the habit of putting men in place just as the taller of us do. Every height has its grace, if you 're able to use it properly. Alexia
Putting a muscular guy twice your wait over your knee and letting him no that your muscles won't give an inch no matter how much he kicks and screams, he's assuming the position and getting the spanking...that's always a wonderful feeling.
DeleteWith the increasing empowerment of women, I think we'll see a lot of comedy then. :-) A lot of macho, provocative asshole's who get taught a very painful lesson.
DeleteLOL Nadia and Alexia ... so true that a big muscle male can be turned into a quivering little boy by an Amazon's muscle power. The results are indeed comical, especially if he starts out as ignorant of Female power. Tasselhoff ... agreed we will see a lot more comedy of this type as Women rise. :)
DeleteNadia Black8 “Putting a muscular guy twice your wait over your knee and letting him no that your muscles won't give an inch no matter how much he kicks and screams, he's assuming the position and getting the spanking...that's always a wonderful feeling” YES I have such giggles doing this lol I humiliated one guy so completely doing this he turned totally submissive sobbing and whimoering that I hee awed like a donkey when I did this to him. Ha a hard man is good to beat ;) Ace
DeleteI hope you girls know that not all male coaches are like this dude. There is a saying that boys have nothing to win by wrestling a girl, if he wins most people think he should of anyway, if he loses, then somehow it is shameful. I actually think he has everything to gain by wrestling a girl, because how he (and his coaches) handle themselves after the contest can show the true mark of a man. How much dignity he shows in defeat or humility if he manages to win, will really properly define his (and his coaches) manhood and sportsmanship. Sadly the pseudo men I this world are quite vocal. Myself I can only say well done girls, you are doing fantastic! To be fair, I have witnessed girls who when you first meet them look like butter will never melt turn into, well savages on the mat and they can be loud and vocal, primeval almost, which does cause some consternation, but it’s hard to say it’s not impressive or infringing the rules.
DeleteThese are the results of coed matches in Colorado State from 2013 to 2017, (I don’t know how this will display because it’s from a spreadsheet)
Colorado state region 1
yearNo. girlswinsvboys losses matches
%winav no matchesav wins
2013 37 123 71 195 63 5.3 3.4
2014 40 134 71 204 65 5.1 3.4
2015 28 77 26 104 75 3.7 2.8
2016 26 74 26 99 74 3.8 2.8
2017 26 69 32 102 68 3.9 2.7
region 2
yearNo. girlswinsvboys losses matches
%winav no matchesav wins
2013 53 198 68 266 75 5.0 3.7
2014 52 201 66 267 75 5.1 3.9
2015 70 181 104 285 64 4.1 2.6
2016 70 150 105 254 59 3.6 2.1
2017 70 196 98 307 64 4.4 2.8
region 3
yearNo. girlswinsvboys losses matches
%win avno matchesav wins
2013 9 41 4 45 91 5.0 4.5
2014 11 59 13 72 82 6.8 5.6
2015 12 77 26 104 75 8.6 6.5
2016 14 74 26 99 74 7.1 5.3
2017 14 69 32 102 68 7.3 5.0
region 4
yearNo. girlswinsv boys losses matches
%win av no matchesav wins
2013 54 147 68 215 68 4.0 2.7
2014 48 119 63 182 65 3.8 2.5
2015 44 132 59 191 69 4.3 3.0
2016 41 139 56 195 72 4.8 3.4
2017 41 114 53 167 68 4.1 2.8
region all
yearNo. girls winsvboys losses matches
%win av no matches av wins
2013 153 509 211 720 71 4.7 3.3
2014 150 512 212 725 71 4.8 3.4
2015 154 468 215 683 68 4.4 3.0
2016 151 437 211 648 67 4.3 2.9
2017 151 448 216 677 66 4.5 3.0
total matches total wins %
4812 3229 67
Generally they agree with the other stats here, the main reason girls think they are doing better as a whole is because while girls may only lose once or twice against a boy, cumulatively it lowers the win ratio (which is still very impressive!!)
The girls in region 3 are very under represented, but all 9 of them in 2013 gave the boys a very hard time indeed! (I suspect these are from families with a strong wrestling pedigree)
The girls are represented across all weight divisions up to and including 235lbs with the main being 130lbs.
Girls wrestling hasn’t really grown anymore in the last few years but the majority of girls have dropped from sophomores to freshmen, implying more girls are taking up wrestling but a lot of girls are dropping out of wrestling later on in high school. In comparison the main concentration of boys is in grades 11 and 12.
The win rate of girls seems to be slowly dropping, but this could be because the age and experience gap between contestants is increasing (really hitting home how remarkable girls are doing)
So over all well done girls, you are doing a great job!
That are very interesting statistics. Where did you find these statistics. It's great to see that girls win 67% of their matches against boys. Do you happen to know if the boy and girl in such a mixed wrestling match are in the same age and weight division? Or if a younger girl is facing an older boy because in the latter it's even more amazing that girls win so often.
DeleteSorry the spreadsheet hasn’t displayed that well. It’s results from Colorado state wrestling going back to 2013. In meets a wrestler can give away a lot of weight in order to get a match this can work both ways for a girl, sometimes a lighter boy, but I suppose yes because they tend to smaller on a whole they give away the weight. In tournaments they compete in a set weight category. However as girls seem to drop out of wrestling before completing high school, it means a fair few lower grade girls get varsity spots so you see varsity matches where the girls give away average 2-3 years in 2013 and now 3-4 years, which as I said could be why the win rate has dropped from 71 to 66%. It’s a shame not many girls carry on with wrestling (perhaps not for males) because I think without doubt girls are more naturally gifted and could really lead the way in wrestling
DeleteAlexia, I think that is false. No outcome is determined just because of the group that the competitors are apart of. Hell, I found that out the hard way.
ReplyDeleteWhile I did see the woman who beat me defeat two of my training partners (and these guys were no slouches) I did have a bit of a sense that, being male I had an advantage.
What ever advantages I had were quickly negated by her speed, technique and strength. What I have found in my several year of doing BJJ is that some people just seem to have a innate warrior spirit ( I know that sound cheesy) that normal people don't quite have. I have seen it in other men, but she had it to a degree I have never experienced.
It's hard to define, but you know it when you are competing against it.
In going through the content on this site, I am amazed at the fact that females are having the success they are having. In a way it shouldn't be a surprise given their ascent in such a short time in all other aspects of life, education, business, leadership etc. but when it comes to combat sports I assumed that men would always have the upper hand.
Now I am not as confident.
Hi Anonymous,
DeleteI was 13-14 years old when I already realized that men don't always have the upper hand when it comes to combat sports. Besides working out quite often, my wife holds a black belt in karate and I know that not many men like to spar with her. A lot of them are afraid of her. So instead of "always have the upper hand", I would like to state that only very skilled, trained men will have a chance against a strong, confident, skilled woman in combat sports.
I like the sound of these Amazonian females you know Mage, have you introduced any of them to this blog?
DeleteHi Gnome,
DeleteI posted a bit already on here in other topics and yes I "suffered" a bit from her and her friend but those times were NOT the times that I felt lucky. Those times scared me but there were far more happier moments at which I do find myself very lucky. That an amazonian woman like her wanted to be with a man like me, that is what I found amazing and made me feel very lucky.
If I may ... I'd say you'll find quite a few more "enlightened" Women than males. It would seem to me that a blog like this could be of interest to Amazons to discuss their philosophy and experiences as the superior sex completes the final stages of overthrowing the patriarchy. It is in its last days.
DeleteI'm not totally convinced, we are heading toward some kind of Matriarchy but having done more research than I would like, I would have to say it might be headed that way. It is well documented how woman and girls are starting to dominate in almost every field. The area that males seemed to always have the clear advantage was in physical activities most explicitly combat.
ReplyDeleteWhile they still probably do based on sheer size and muscle mass the gap is rapidly closing. Will females pass males in this realm I'm not sure, based on my recent experiences as well as what I am finding on sites like this, I feel they just might.
As I stated in a past post, I don't really like that idea, but maybe I will just have to deal with it.
Gnome ... those are some interesting fights. Since women are getting so good at defeating males ... with equally trained/matched females and males it's inevitable that she will tear him apart. There seem to be doubters in the comments, but I'm thinking that it's becoming more likely that any time you see a male beat a female in one of these videos that it's more likely to be fake than the other way around. :)
ReplyDeleteGnome, Oh, i agree. There's no doubt in my mind that these Women are really overpowering the men. Seems It's really difficult for males in general to accept the truth of Female superiority, especially when it comes to physical prowess. It's really the final male bastion but it will collapse just like all the other fragile masculine illusions have gone by the wayside.
ReplyDeleteJust saw that the army just graduated it's first batch of Female Rangers. That last bastion is indeed collapsing!
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